Boundaries
use gender neutral terms unless requested otherwisetone-tags are neededplease avoid making cult jokes around us (exceptions made for coping jokes)if jokingly trying to “force / peer pressure” us into doing something, please clarify that it’s actually joking, especially if you’re persistent with it — we’ll think you’re being genuine
pings encourageddoubles okay to interactcompliments okayteasing usually okay with tone tags
ask to friend requestask to DMask before flirting (/p or /r)ask before making possibly triggering source jokesask before infodumping — can be difficult to listen / read if low on social battery
don’t sexualise usdon’t vent in DMs without askingdon’t vent about us in mutual servers (even if you don’t say it’s us)don’t spam unless closedon’t use tone tags when asking common conversation starters / questions we asked back to usdon’t ask for our triggers unless close or with good reason
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